A field guide to the etiquette that's kept queer spaces safe and generous long before anyone wrote it down. None of it is complicated. All of it is essential.
Every room has a rhythm and a threshold. The first rule isn't a rule at all — it's attention. Watch, wait, and let the space tell you how it works before you assume you already know.
What happens in the room stays in the room. It's the oldest code there is, and the reason the doors stay open at all.